Time : 3rd Semester of Engineering
Its been eighth or ninth time that I am going through the chat over the WhatsApp, unable to sink what just happened in the past two hours of my life. Even though I expected rejection before proposing her. But trust me guys, that there’s a lot of difference in thinking the way the things will go on and when actually the things go on. When you think, there’s an excitement, nervousness, anxiousness, at the same time. But, when the things actually go on, you are left with only one thing : unhappiness/ happiness. It takes a lot to say those three words to the girl ,with whom you think you would spend time, share your problems, your happiness, you sadness. Our level of prediction increases to such an extent that we always fail to know, what lies over the other end and that becomes s primary reason for rejection. In my case I consider myself as a lucky guy because even after being rejected, we're still friends. Before you propose, make sure she's comfortable with you and then proceed in a mature way. Acting in a hurry and harsh manner always ruins the current and the future bonds. Make sure that you explain her your feelings. You can even ask them to be patient, till you complete. When you're done, the girl will explain you the things from her end. Patience is expected from your end as well. I not sure whether every girl would reply in the same way as I got. I still feel very kind of her, that she explained me the things calmly and appropriately. And also it’s expected from every girl that please let the guy know about your feelings. It’s very important to explain someone your point of view. And one thing that every single guy should understand, whatever may be the reaction of the girl after you propose her, just try to respect her feelings and her decision. Keep it that simple and just move on.
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